Wow, that is mind boggling to me. How in the world does time go by so fast? I'm not at all upset about reaching 40. I think each birthday is a victory. I would much rather be here to celebrate the birthday and "get old" than to not be here. Although, I don't see 40 as being old. I don't understand why so many people do think of it as old.
It's been a great birthday, too. Since becoming an adult birthdays do get to be quite as exciting as when we are kids. My family still makes me feel special on that day, but of course it's not like when we are kids. But, this year it was awesome. It started Friday night, the 10th.
Michael planned a surprise party for me and I was surprised. It is so out of his nature to plan a surprise party, but yet he did. It was amazing for him to do that for me. I've always wanted someone to plan a surprise party for me. He went to a lot of trouble, too. He got my mom involved and his parents involved. He spent about a month planning it, too.
The best part for me was he managed to get my side of the family AND his side of the family (all of them) in the same place at once. That has not happened ever, I don't think. There's always been someone missing. That meant more to me than anyone really understands. I literally burst into tears when I walked into the house.
There were also a couple of my friends that I just adore here with their families. It really meant so much to have them all here for me. Everyone really seemed to enjoy themselves, too. Kelly and Jeremy even spent part of the evening they had set aside to celebrate their anniversary to be here with me.
Then, on Sunday the 11th (my actual birthday) we went out to lunch with Michael's parents. We went to Olive Garden. They gave me my gift there. It was a very nice lunch. I've had to do a lot of work for work today and do laundry, but I don't even mind that I had to spend my birthday doing that.
My gifts were: two more Terry Goodkind books, My Sims Kingdom for Wii, Breakfast Club on DVD, iTunes GC, Borders GC, GC for pedicure, a small bendable tri-pod for my camera, a set of 4 colored rhinestone earrings, flowers, and an assortment of really funny gag gifts. I love the people in my life.